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Therapy for Infidelity & Betrayal

Holding space for your pain and paving the way for healing.

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Neither of you ever expected to be in this position.

In the aftermath of what happened, there’s so much shock, fear, and confusion between you. If you’re the partner who’s been betrayed—through infidelity, being lied to about finances, a delayed wedding, or something else—you might be questioning your worth and feeling lost. If you are the partner who committed the betrayal, you’re likely feeling shame and guilt for hurting your partner. Now, your home no longer feels like a safe space and both of you are in pain.

Maybe you find yourself thinking…

“How did we get here? What did I do wrong to make them do this?”

“Do I even know my partner?”

“How can I ever trust again—can I even trust myself?”

Rebuilding trust isn’t easy, but it is possible—and it starts with understanding.

How we’ll work together

Helping you face the discomfort at a pace that’s right for you.

Betrayal is one of the hardest things a relationship can go through, which is why we’ll move slowly and intentionally through this process. In the beginning, we will spend real time making space for the emotions that need to be communicated, experienced, and validated first. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy to guide the process, helping you both start to put words to your experience and feel more understood as we move forward.

This work is layered, and we’ll take our time unpacking your unique story. Together, we’ll begin to make sense of what happened and why, while also learning how to stay emotionally connected through the hardest parts. My role isn’t to “fix” the relationship, but to hold space for both of you, help you feel less alone, and support you in building something more honest and secure—whatever that may look like for you.

What we’ll work on

Through specialized therapy for betrayal & infidelity, you can…

  • Begin the slow, honest process of rebuilding trust (without pretending nothing happened).

  • Learn how to sit with your pain and your partner’s without shutting down or exploding.

  • Understand how the betrayal happened—not to excuse it, but to prevent it from happening again.

  • Practice honest communication that brings you closer, even when the conversation is hard.

  • Build a new relationship rooted in connection, not fear, with tools to handle the tough stuff together.

  • Stop walking on eggshells and start showing up with honesty, vulnerability, and mutual support.

BOOK FREE CONSULT

BOOK FREE CONSULT

You don’t have to stay stuck in shame or doubt.

FAQs

  • Infidelity happens more often than people think. But it doesn’t always look the way you’d expect, and can be emotional or physical. It can happen in relationships that seem "fine" on the outside but are missing real connection underneath. You’re not alone if you're going through this, and it doesn't mean you're broken or hopeless. Therapy can help you make sense of what happened, what it brought up for you, and what healing looks like moving forward—together or on your own.

  • A lot of couples do survive betrayal—but it takes real work, honesty, and a willingness to look at the pain directly. You can’t go back to how things were, but you can rebuild something new, with more awareness and emotional connection. Survival is possible, but healing is the goal. In therapy, I help couples slow down, get honest, and figure out what rebuilding—if that’s what they choose—actually looks like.

  • Sometimes the healthiest outcome is clarity—whether that means staying together or parting ways. Separation doesn’t equal failure, it means you got honest about what you need and what’s possible. Either way, you deserve peace, not confusion. Therapy gives you the tools and space to understand your relationship and walk away (if you choose to) with clarity, dignity, and growth.

  • Definitely. In order to be able to trust again, a lot of healing needs to happen. Together, we can reflect, grieve, and make sense of what happened so you won’t have to carry the baggage of this experience into your next relationship.

  • Betrayal isn’t exclusive to cheating. It can look like broken trust in all kinds of ways: hiding things, emotional disconnection, dishonesty about money, or constantly making your partner feel small or unseen. It’s anything that shakes the safety and connection in a relationship. The pain is real, even if there wasn’t a physical affair. In therapy, we’ll work together to name the hurt, understand the impact, and work toward rebuilding something more honest and secure.